Hello Everyone!
Can you believe that we have officially left 2018 behind and are no fully drawn into 2019?
Now I’m not the kind of person who looks at the New Year as something magical. Nothing really changes at the stroke of midnight. We don’t magically become better people who will hit the gym more and the carbs less. We don’t automatically become best selling authors over night. Our problems don’t just vanish into thin air. Sometimes people look at the New Years Eve/New Year’s midnight as some mystical power to start over. The truth is, it isn’t.
That’s because we can start over at any time. Which is partly the reason why I am posting this on January 2nd instead of January 1st (even though to most my New Year post would make more logical sense to come on New Years Day). New Years Day is not physically magical, it is a mental reminder and that’s what I love about New Years. Perhaps this year will be just as wonderful or as devastating as the last, we can’t know for certain. But what we do know is this:
New Year’s Day represents a fresh start.
For the most part anyway. After all, we are still the same people as we were forty-eight hours ago with the same hopes, dreams, fears, and sins. But we always have a chance to start doing better, to start improving ourselves. This, of course, leads to the idea of New Year’s resolutions.
Don’t we all, Kirk?
Most of you know all about New Year’s resolutions, I’m sure. And I’m not here to down on them, there’s nothing wrong with setting yourself a goal. The problem with New Year’s resolutions comes when we set impossible goals and then feel like failures when we cannot meet them. So this year, be kinder to yourself and set realistic resolutions.
Here are some of my resolutions for 2019:
- Be a better, kinder, and more patient professor (and person in general)
- Finish Planning and Celebrate my Wedding without worrying if it’s “perfect”
- Finish my book with the same excitement with which I began
- Sell 100 copies! (Hey, it could happen :D)
- Visit my Papa and remind him what he means to me.
- Take advantage of the moments I have with the people I love.
- Be kinder to myself and stop demanding more than I can give.
I am going to address that last resolution immediately by reducing the amount of blog posts that I demand from myself every week.
Currently, I publish a post every weekday (Monday-Friday), which is five times a week. Beginning immediately, I will be posting every Monday/Wednesday/Friday, which is three times a week.
I believe that by reducing the amount of times I am posting, I will not feel the need to put up sub par work. Instead, this will give me ample time to create posts with detailed content.
Don’t worry though, I’m not going anywhere! While I plan to only be posting on Monday/Wednesday/Friday, that does not mean that I will only be active on those days. I still plan to pop in and check out as many of your blogs as possible.
Thanks for checking in and reading this blog update, I hope that you all will continue to stop by and check out the new blog posts.
Sound advice–not to overdo! 🙂
–Michael
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Indeed Michael, I’m learning the importance of putting my health first
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Happy New Year, KaylaAnn!
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Happy New Year MissM! How were your holidays?
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It was great! I just stayed home and relaxed. I got a few books for Christmas that were my teenage favorites back in the day, so I’m going to read those. How was yours?
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It was alright, thank you for asking 🙂
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Sounds like a good plan! 🙂
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Thanks Penny!
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I agree with the plan not to post sub-par work just to get a post in. My plan is to post when I know I have it right, not because it’s due. All your plans are a good start to 2019. Wish you well.
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Darnell, that’s a great posting plan, to put quality ahead of quantity. How were your holidays?
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I had a wonderful time with family. Not much blogging so this week I play catch up. Hope you had the same.😊
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Great schedule! May 2019 shower you with blessings and happiness!
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Thank you so much!!
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You are welcome, Kayla!
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I just want to blog more consistently than I did last year. It would be a shame if I wasted this year like I wasted last year.
Happy 2019, KaylaAnn!
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You can do it! Maybe set aside a time on the weekends when you have more time to do some blogging! 🙂 happy 2019!
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Happy New Year. It seems that being kinder is on a lot of people’s lists this year from what I’ve been reading, or maybe I just follow the right kind of people! I make vision cards around specific areas that I want to focus on for the year ahead. It takes a lot of the pressure off of making “resolutions” that are sometimes not really kept.
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Kindness is always a wonderful goal (even for those who already strive toward kindness). I like the idea of vision cards.
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Ok, and we’ll be here too 😉
Yes I’ve got a new resolution, I’ve got to learn more.
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Learning more is a great goal! If I could I would stay in school forever and continue learning.
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😄😄😄😄😄 there is always something new to learn even at home . I never went to school except when i was 6. Everything i learned and still learn is at home . My parents taught me all
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Great resolutions! My New Years goals revolve around starting my business.
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A business huh? What kind of business?
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A private practice for mental health therapy
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Amen to being realistic! It sounds like you have your priorities right. Good luck in the new year! 🙂
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Thank you so much, realism is healthier than pushing myself to breaking point. I wish you the best as well!
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