Hello there friends!
As many of you are aware, I finished up my latest round of The Agency Games last week and I was feeling pretty good about myself. That is, until I got the rejection letter from another publishing company that I had submitted my children’s series to a couple months back. They responded,
We have read and reviewed it with care, but we’re sorry to say that it doesn’t seem quite right for our list. We appreciate the opportunity to read your work, however, and wish you good luck in finding the right home for this project.
Overall, it’s not actually a horrible rejection letter. It is kind and considerate, and while I may wish they had told me why the book was not the right fit, I appreciated their encouragement to try again elsewhere.
Now, you may be wondering, why am I highlighting my failures online for everyone to see? The answer is simple really:
I believe in presenting my authentic self, every time.
And honestly, I refuse to see a rejection letter as a “failure.” Lately, I have been blessed enough to be able to focus and celebrate my accomplishments, but I am a writer, and our lives are definitely not only made up of achievements. The life of a writer is overflowing with feedback and most of it is not going to be positive (not if you’re allowing yourself to be vulnerable). There is going to be negative feedback, hurtful criticism, and yes, enough rejection letters to plaster your office walls.
So what? That does not mean that we stop writing. It means that we sit our butts back down in our writing chair, we open our computers, and we go to work.
This week, in honor of my latest rejection letter, I am going to post up a new famous author every day who went through multiple rejections on their way to becoming successful. Are you a writer? Have you received that rejection letter? You are not alone! Stop by my blog each day this week to read about how all the “great” authors have stood exactly where you stand now with rejection letters in hand.
My hope is this, that as a writing community we will not equate “rejection” with “failure.”
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Great attitude to have.
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Thank you Mws R! It’s the only attitude to have if I don’t want rejections to overwhelm me.
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You can send stuff and get rejected, or you can keep your stuff to yourself and not get rejected. But if you want to publish, the latter makes no sense. 🙂
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So true, Alice! If we really want to fly, we have to accept the possibility of falling first! It’s just figuring out our priorities, I suppose.
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Yeah! And I wanna stress it’s totally okay to write and not want to publish. Actually, in many ways, I find that path to be more admirable…
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Writing for the sake of writing can indeed be a wonderful thing.
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That’s a shame but keep trying – even JK Rowling was rejected multiple times! It all falls down to subjectivity a lot of the time.
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Thank you so much Ruby! I definitely will keep trying! I love JK Rowling’s stories about rejection, they give all authors hope!
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Someone WILL publish your work sooner or later. We thank you for showing us that good work can be rejected too. It just takes time to get someone to really READ our manuscripts without moving on to the next one after three minutes.
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You’re welcome and thank YOU Darnell for your encouragement!
That is so true. The publishing world is over-saturated with manuscripts so we have an even harder time of standing out.
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Arr matey, I feel like you is reading me emails. I has gotten 2 rejections this week with they same lingo. Yer attitude it be more adult (and better) than mine (I thinks on posting them some eyes of newt). I be remembering it next time I be getting me a rejection.
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It’s hard Baba! And I totally cried when I first read it, but it’s all about getting back up and moving forward.
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My dear Kayla, you are so right. Rejection is not failure. You got to keep going. You are a wonderful writer. It’s going to happen!
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Thank you so much, your support and encouragement means so much to me!
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I don’t mind getting rejections either (it’s better than silence), but I also hate that they generally never tell you anything constructive or something you can learn from. Looking forward to the rest of the quotes you’ll be posting. Good luck with your future submissions 😊.
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Hi there K.M. Allan! I agree with you, I think the lack of constructive feedback is the hardest part about rejection letters because we are left to guess why it was not the right fit. I hope you enjoy the rest of this week’s focus on rejection, thank you for your support!
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Yes, and that guessing (at least in my case) always makes me think the whole submission must be terrible. That’s probably not true, but hard to forget when you’re reading a rejection that tells you nothing except they didn’t want it.
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Someone else mentioned that a lot of times publishing houses will reject a perfectly great submission because it doesn’t fit with what is currently “trending.”
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If that was true I’d still like to know it. Then you’d know to shop around something else 😊.
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Very true! Honestly, just by checking different houses, I can usually tell what’s “trending,” but I don’t want to just write to be trendy.
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Same. I just write the story I need/want to.
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Exactly! If I try to write to fit in with the popular trends then it would never work!
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Don’t give up. Writing, like fine art, is in the eye of beholder/reader. They probably have a criterion for what’s currently trending and your book doesn’t fit in. That doesn’t mean the book isn’t appealing or worthy. Good luck!
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Eugenia, thank you so much for mentioning what really is a big deal in publishing (i.e. what is “trending”).
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It’s like the lottery… You can’t win if you don’t play. You have taught me so much KaylaAnn, including never giving up abd how what may be trash to one editor/publication will be treasure to anither. You are so supportive, encouraging abd inspirational to all of us. You took this old beginning poet as your friend, encouraging and critiquing me and have guided me. I have learned so much from.you and am so grateful to you. I recently watched the movie “Sylvia”, about Sylvia Plath, and I love her quote that you posted. You are an amazing young woman KaylaAnn, and it is an honor to be your friend. ☺
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Ha, quite the trending comment. I currently can’t win at either! 🤣
Walt, our friendship is definitely mutual! I am so grateful for the wisdom and perspective you have shared with me this past share!
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‘Tis my pleasure ☺
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