Take a breath.
Like many of you, I, too, returned to college classes this week. Unlike many of you, I return as a professor and not a student. However, as I was still a student in January of 2017, I feel that I am uniquely qualified to comment on both sides of the coin as both former student and current professor.
I am sure that many of you are already overwhelmed. The syllabus is filled to the brim with assignments that you have no understanding of and due dates that seem impossible to meet. The professor seems aloof and you are pretty sure that they are just waiting for a chance to fail you. They do not care if you have a thousand other things going on at home, because their class is the most important. There is no way you will ever get through another semester . . .
Now, before your thoughts continue down this train of thought (a train I’ve ridden in the past), let me remind you:
Take a breath.
Of course the syllabus seems overwhelming, it’s an entire semester’s worth of work shoved into 8-10 pages.
Maybe your professor does such (sorry, those exist too), but more than likely, your professor does care about your success. And if they don’t, don’t let their attitude affect you. (Easier said than done right?) Find that one professor who does care and ask them question, even about other classes. Odds are, if they can, they are willing to help you.
There IS a way you will get through this semester, just like you did the last, and just like you will the next. ONE. STEP. AT. A. TIME. And one breath at a time.
It’s the middle of the semester for me right now, but I didn’t know how much I really needed to read this. Thank you!!
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Hey Sahar, I’m so glad that you found this post and that you read what you needed to hear. College can be so difficult sometimes so definitely make sure to take a breath take a break and take care of your own needs. You’ll get through this!
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love this. I’m in my final semester of college and often find myself forgetting to take a step back every once and a while.
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Hi Hana, I’m so glad that you found this blog post! As a former college student not too long ago it doesn’t surprise me that you have to remind yourself to take a breath, I had to remind myself on a weekly basis 😅
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This is such a wonderful post I love it, thank you for the little reminder sometimes you get so caught up with school you forget something as simple as taking a few deep breaths! And it’s even more comforting to know not long ago you were on the other side just like the rest of us. 🙂
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Hi there Zara and welcome to my blog! Thank you for dropping a comment. And yes, it is easy to get caught up in all our school and family responsibilities, it’s always a good option to pause and breath.
What do you blog about, Zara?
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Of course! I’m pretty new to wordpress but have had an online presense for years now, I mainly blog about lifestyle such as routines (workout, skincare etc) and tips & tricks! A little bit of everything 🙂
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Sounds like a lot of fun!
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This is the perfect post to read. Especially in my case as a working student. Nice one. 🙂
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I was in your shoes, working 2-3 jobs and attending school full time with 18 units a semester. I needed to hear someone tell me this back then so I’m glad you heard it from me.
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thank you, too for writing something that fuels my energy to study, work and have fun!
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So glad to hear that it did! College will be a stressful time, but you should enjoy it too!
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Good post
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Thank you for stopping by!
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Such a great post. Good advice!!
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Hi there Maddie, thanks for stopping by and the comment! I hope you find it useful in your future writing!
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